| Location | Ashford |
| Age | 44 years |
| Cause of Death | Accident |
| Date of Birth | 28/01/1964 |
| Date of Death | 03/01/2009 |
| Visitors | 1,330 since 20/01/2009 |
| Creator |
shaun andrew chapman - dad to 3 - son to 2 - brother to 3 - friend to 100's
this year i had the best and last christmas with my dad as not even a month later he died from wat
at 1st we thought to be a tree fall whilst him doing tree surgery but not untill a month ago at the
inquest we found out he had a rare heart condition wich means the artaries to the heart split and
rejoin but wrapping around the heart causing a black out and death no matter what ! my baby brother
daniel had it but every one thought it was an act of nature but we know no that it was not !!!! my
dad although having the heart condition that no one knew he had he fell 85 feet in which he was
wearing a harness but it didnt clip in properly but it was not the fall that killed him r.i.p daddy
i love u and will always be your princess ! ! !
my dad was a kind and loving man and lived for his kids , family , friends , and golf.
my dad supported man-u foot ball team , he loved golf,no matter what all i no that my dad is most proberly kicking him self up there as he has left his 3 children - his mum - his 3 brothers and all his friends.all i wont to say is that i love you daddy and would do any thing to get you back so r.i.p daddy love you today tommorow and forever love your princess sophie xxxxx
BIG HUGS SHAUN
in my thoughts
If tomorrow starts without me
If tomorrow starts without me,
And I’m not there to see.
If the sun should rise, and find your eyes,
Are filled with tears for me.
I wish so much you wouldn’t cry,
The way you did today.
While thinking of the many things, we didn’t get to say.
I know how much you loved me,
As much as I love you.
And every time you think of me, I know you’ll miss me too.
But when tomorrow starts without me,
I hope you’ll understand,
An angel came and called my name and took me by the hand.
She said my place was ready, in heaven up above,
And that I’d have to leave behind, all those I dearly love.
I had so much to live for, so much that I should do,
It seemed almost impossible, that I was leaving you.
I wish I could have said goodbye,
And kissed and seen you smile,
I wish I could have stayed with you even for a little while.
But then I had to realise, that this could never be,
Now emptiness, and memories,
Would take the place of me.
But when I walked through heavens gates,
I felt so much at home,
And then the lord looked down on me, from his golden throne.
He said, “this is for eternity, but I will promise you,
Although your life on earth has passed, here life starts anew”
“I promise no tomorrow, but today will always last,
And since each days the same up here,
There’s no longing for the past”
My loved ones, please don’t grieve for me,
Coz I am truly free,
And I will wait for you to come and share my life with me.
So when tomorrow starts without me,
Don’t think we’re far apart,
For every time you think of me,
I’m right here in your heart
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
love you take care big hugs to you
and your family that miss you ever
day more then words can say take
care bye for now love from me
Sylvie mommy of Samantha Belanger
i will be strong
for month's recently i have been strong just going on with my life but i guess every one once in a while needs to cry and i have learnt that
...
.life goes on
.nothing i say or do will bring you back
.i miss you
.and that life generally sucks !
r.i.p daddy i love you and will never forgot you and
you are gone and never forgotten and u will always be in my heart !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
love from u baby girl princess x x x x x x x x x
sophie-alice xxx
Derek Tank (Tanky)
I have searched in vain for you so long,
only to find that you have gone,
In the hearts of us, that knew you well,
Will your memory firmly dwell,
Its with sadness and a heavy heart,
I say fairwell for you must part,
To guard the way for us who follow,
good by my freind untill tomorrow,
look down on us who loved you most,
for a freind of yours i am proud to boast,
God bless
Tanky
For Shirley x
My mum the survivor
My Mum is a Survivor
My Mum is a survivor,
Or so I've heard it said.
But I can hear her crying at night,
When all others are in bed.
I watch her lay awake at night,
And go to hold her hand.
She doesn't know I'm with her,
To help her understand.
But like the sands on the beach,
That never wash away...
I watch over my surviving mum,
Who thinks of me each day.
She wears a smile for others...
A smile of disguise!
But through Heaven's door I see,
Tears flowing from her eyes.
My mum tries to cope with death,
To keep my memory alive.
But anyone who knows her knows,
It is her way to survive.
As I watch over my surviving mum,
Through Heaven's open door...
I try to tell her that angels,
Protect me forevermore.
I know that doesn't help her...
Or ease the burden she bears.
So if you get a chance, go visit her...
And show her that you care.
For no matter what she says...
No matter what she feels,
My surviving mum has a broken heart,
That time won't ever heal.
Nephew
Shaun i will never forget the night i heard about your life being cut short. i will miss seeing you at your mums and talking to you about sorting the world out. until we meet again Shaun
God Bless
Your Uncle Billy.
Big brother
What can i say there is no easy way to write quite how i feel.
I still have to ask myself is it really real.
I will miss our chats about rubbish topics and putting the world to rights. Your aches ans paind a little tales of woh
Having a laugh about silly things .
I have a million conversations that i still would love to have with you and one day i will.
You and me we shared 4 years in the army and only i now can tell the tales .( might bend the truth now to make me look a bit better not that you would have )
Each day i have a little though but still it is so tough to think that you are not on the end of the phone .
Till we meet again big bruv brother or bro.
Love you bruv always have and i always bloody will
TUT TA FOR NOW
Colin xxxxxxx
miss you uncle erk
shaun i still can't believe that you are not here.
I am really going to miss seeing you round at nans pinching one of rolfs beers and tucking into one of nans big roast dinners.
I will miss you making me laugh with your moaning about anything and everything and putting the world to rights.
I will miss that cough of yours and your tales from the golf course.
I always looked forward to seeing you and would say to my dad can we see uncle erky this weekend.
I liked the way you always wanted to know how my drumming was comming along and constantley laughed at my dad because he had to put up with the noise.
I will always remember you as you where a part of my life and always will be.
IF is a small word with a big meaning and IF i could turn back the clock i would
Love you uncle erk
Regan
He's not gone away........His journey has just begun!
Don't think of them as gone away-
Their journey's just begun,
Life holds so many facets-
This earth is only one.
Just think of them as resting
From the sorrows and the tears
In a place of warmth and comfort
Where there are no days and years.
Think how they must be wishing
That we could know today
How nothing but our sadness
Can really pass away.
And think of them as living
In the hearts of those they touched...
For nothing loved is ever lost
And they were loved so much.
poems for Erk xx
Trying to find a way to understand
Is one of the hardest things to do,
The pain, the sadness, the despair,
Waking every morning knowing your not there.
Life was full of love and living
But now its seems all gone
Life is an evil thing Erk
Taking you away from everyone was wrong.
You have left your loved ones behind you,
We cant see a future at all,
But knowing your up there in heaven
Waiting by our sides to catch us if we fall.
Your mum is a broken flower babe,
Her petals have fallen to the ground,
Stand by and hold her tightly Shaun
Give her comfort with signs you are around.
Your brothers are missing you deeply,
They need help to find their way,
To find comfort, love and healing
And relieve their pain day by day.
Shine upon your loved one’s Erk,
Stand by them and keep them safe,
Laugh at their antics, and hug them in their grief
And know they miss you every day.
Your children did you proud today
Your mum and brothers too,
You saw how many people came
To celebrate your life for you.
There were tears and some laughter,
It was the saddest day of time,
But knowing your up their waiting,
Will keep them ticking over just fine.
They say that time is a great healer,
And the memories never die,
So helps us all in our dark days,
And shine your love through the sun in the sky.
You are the warmth of sunshine,
You are the dampness of the rain,
You are the wind that blows each day
And the healing to take away the pain.
Shine down on us from heaven Erk
Watch us all make our mistakes,
Just send a sign to say your laughing
And we can live with love another day.
You were taken way too early Shaun
Your job on earth was not done,
Your yet to see your boys graduate
And your Princess act on the stage and have fun.
Sit up in Heaven with Daniel now,
With your Dad, Wick and Nan,
Keep sending your love upon us Shaun
And we will be up there with you
As soon as we can………
written by Allison (ex wife)
Read by the children at his funeral... written by me.
Our hearts are broken
Our lives are in tatters
You were the best Dad
And that really matters
You gave to us
A life so special
You loved us to very much
You were our Dad, our friend our mate
We will forever miss your touch
You were taken away so suddenly
And it's left a hole so deep
But your memory lives forever Dad
And our love it's for keeps
Look down on us from time to time
Check that we are doing fine
We will make you proud forever
But for now Da, play with our brother Daniel
until we can be together
Miss you and Love you Dad.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
beloved son
to my beloved son,you broke my heart on that fatefull day and my world stood still.i love and miss you so very much,but your memory will live on forever in my heart through your brothers and my three lovely grandchildren.so till that day we can be together again sleep in peace dear shaun,untill i come to you,love you loads,heartbroken mum xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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